Charity does not enable others to behave rudely G-d hears you clanging when you do!
Charity comes from the Greek word agape. ἀγάπη agapē; from G25; love, goodwill: - beloved (1), love (1), love (112), love feasts (1), love’s (1). Jealousy of another's gift or relationship to G-d is not love it is the very lack of it. Good parents do not give treats to the unruly undisciplined children but…